*Have you noticed that a bronze medalist is generally more happy than a silver medalist at the end of the game.*
Its not incidental finding but proven fact in many research studies after studying reactions of silver medalists vs bronze medalists!
Ideally, a silver medalist should be more happy than the bronze. But, human mind doesn’t work like mathematics. This happens because of phenomenon of counterfactual thinking.
A concept in psychology in which there is human tendency to create possible alternatives to life events that have already happened, that would be contrary to what happened.
Sliver medalist thinks, “Oh I couldn’t win the gold medal.” Bronze medalist thinks, “At least I got a medal.”
Silver medal is won after losing, but Bronze medal is won after Winning.
This happens in our life also, we don’t appreciate what we have but feel sad with what we don’t have. Let’s be grateful for our blessings, they far outweigh our problems if we start counting.
Great wisdom Chiru, so logical and simple that it often evades us!
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Thank you Kate… I just thought of posting this just after u asked me there’s no post for quite a time..
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ah you have plenty to share, may be keep them shorter so it’s not such a chore for you 🙂
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yes.. Even I don’t want my posts to be longer.. Also from reader point of view posts need to be simple and short..
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yes most just browse, I wrote some fiction, only 300 words, but not many will even look let alone read it 😦
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I noticed it a lot while posting long posts..
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seems we all have shortened attention spans 😦
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hehe
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Very well stated.I appreciate your lebel of thinking. Yes,happiness is nothing but a proper thinking about our status in terms of our hard work and our acceptance of what we deserve for the time being. That is not the end of everything but a great win awaits us in the future on your day. Thanks a lot for sharing. Take care.🌹🙏😊
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Words of wisdom.. Thanks for your feedback..Rightly said.
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My pleasure.🙏
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Nice.
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Wow! You have started with the concept of phychology but ended with great moral . And yes it’s absolutely true we don’t feel happy with what we have. Well shared 👌😊💐 thank you very much ❣️😊😊
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Thank you for sharing your view. We are never happy with what we have.. its just because once we achieve something we aim for something even better.. the thrust continues.
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Yes you are right,.💗🙂
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This is incredible ❤❤❤❤
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Thank you bhai
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Explained beautifully.
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Thank you Deborah
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You are welcome..
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Great thought!!!!
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Thank you Rekha
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Hi Chiru! This is fascinating and really puts things into perspective. It reminds me of how I felt when I won a silver medal for a competition.
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Glad to know you won silver medal.. Yeah I am sure you would relate to this post then anyone else.. Thanks for stopping by..
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so thoughtful 🙂
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Perfect thought and well penned 👍
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Thank you for the compliment
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Nice blog!!!!!!(⌒_⌒;)
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Thank you 😊
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Yes, Bronze is “Yay, I’m here, I made it.” Where as Silver is “I should have tried harder”. It’s such a shame that we think that way. We need to change our thinking.
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The mentality is what make them differentiate.. thanks for stopping by..
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Excellent post
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Thank you
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I’ve always thought about this and you’ve worded it so perfectly!
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Your comment made my day… you are kind..
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Read mine too
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Yes sure mate
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We should be satisfied with our own potential and not others. Great article, Chiru.
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Perfectly said Suni.. thanks for the dropping by..
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You’re welcome. 🌝
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Love it! Such holy lines!!
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Thank you Bhavna
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